Love & Marriage

Love and marriage are not the same.

Stepping into a marriage where a couple cannot maintain a symbiotic relationship, the marriage is destined to struggle badly or fail completely. When it survives, it does so at the cost of one or both partners' emotional well-being.

Take time to reflect and discuss every aspect of your relationship, both with yourself and your partner, before stepping into serious commitments. A life filled with regret is not only draining but also unfair to both people involved.

Marriage eroding love is one of the most painful experiences.

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