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When someone says something and you feel incredibly sensitive is because you have wound within (mostly insecurities) and you feel the pain when people reach it.. so how do you conclude this? Is it their fault or yours? Scenario: When you are insecure about something, you come up with justifying conclusions and choose to believe it's all gone and good.. But in real it's just a cover-up. Whenever someone proves you wrong and make you realize it's still in there... They are instantly activating your defense system. As long as you don't heal it... You are exposing yourself to pain that doesn't even make sense most of the time. Don't focus on staying away from people that play with your wounds. Put yourself around them often to test where you stand. These people are not threats... They are your solution...they make you become stronger.

Just having this one quality called "learning from your mistakes" makes you more comfortable making mistakes..turns out you try out a lot of new things comfortably..which increases the possibility of you winning big time with so much experience. On the other hand...people who doesn't have this quality are always scared of making mistakes and being judged by others...will tend not to tey new things...almost always ends up a loser. Symptoms: Blaming others when things go wrong...trying to get credits unnecessarily...feeling low frequently...bitching about people who tries... Not approving when people around you come up with possible solutions to a problem. Conclusion: people judging that you are an ass is a secondary problem. The primary problem is you are putting a stop on yourself from becoming big. It's a pity that you do all this thinking you are moving ahead to achieve greatness...but in reality mediocrity will become your life.

I'm into affiliate marketing for 7 years now but I'm not rich yet! Over these past 7 years I have procured so much knowledge about how to make money online. I have had successful campaigns once in a while that kept me afloat for 7 years but nothing crazy to turn my life around. Meanwhile a lot of affiliate marketing friends are making shit tons of money and I'm nowhere near to what they have achieved. When I think about it, it is difficult to swallow...though i work on super potential projects I always end up losing interest after a while and jump onto something new and more exciting. I have to at least figure out what's wrong and how it can be fixed. Jumping onto one after the other is not a bad trait to have. It's my personality..but I'm sure I can figure out a way to handle it. Well..if that's not the real issue what else is stopping me!? It took me a while to spot the real enemy "Mediocre Thinking". I was born into a middle class family and th...

For a very long time I believed I'm just being plain lazy and that's what is standing in my way of becoming super successful online entrepreneur! When I work, I work like a crazy workaholic..but I when I don't, I while away time doing nothing and feeling guilty for being such a loser. Let me give you an example..one fine morning i decide to sign up for swimming..I'm consistent visiting the place for at least a week or two..but soon I stop visiting the pool and back to feeling guilty for not being consistent, also paying a hefty fee for the membership that just went for nothing. Are you able to relate to this scenario? So my conclusions about this whole scenario.. I'm being lazy I'm being inconsistent I start things but never complete it These conclusions are negatively influencing me on everything. I'm losing respect for myself. What's the real issue? I absolutely love swimming or at least being in water. The only problem I have is travelling! It t...

Make situations uncomfortable or challenging for people you are associated with and learn quickly what they really are deep down..so you don't get surprised after it's too late! Well..spot your rotten eggs as well. Put yourself in uncomfortable situations as often..monitor yourself without justifying your actions and spot rotten eggs if there is any! This will sure speedup your evolving process.

Looking back and I see I have been manipulated a lot by this one sucker! Riding under a bridge is fearsome.. Omg this bridge is gonna fall on my head anytime let's speed up! Magically my bus ticket is gonna disappear so let me keep checking it once in a while...and a loads of such silly craps. Irrational fear is not bad until its percentage remains small. Something like our greenhouse gas layer...as far as it remains thick enough for gasses and heat to enter our atmosphere and reflected back into space, everything is good. What happens when the heat that got inside our atmosphere gets trapped? That's what exactly happens when we send too much carbondioxide making the ozone thicker so heat gets trapped and we are fucked once and for all. Global warming. It is one of our primal instincts which helped us to be safe from predators and evolve. Your fear helps you come up with solutions to solve real problems. But when this irrational fear gets out of control that keeps you cripple...

So I have come up with a well thought out daily routine for this year. Mostly focused on building new habits. Everytime I schedule something, I stick to the plan so tightly for few day and fall hard on my face soon. This has never worked for me like always! So this time I have a brand new approach for my new schedule. I'm not gonna care if I stick to the exact plan since day one. I'm starting with the ones I'm most comfortable and excited about. I have started reading...started swimming..sleeping well...slowly adapting healthy eating..well my work routine is fucked up but I'm not so worried or guilty about it. By the end of March if I can adapt to this laid out routine (at least a 75% of it) that will be an accomplishment. Sticking to the routine so effortlessly - That's what I aim to achieve. Habits.

If you are a creative person you know how hard it is when you fall into one of those creative block situation. Well I found a new way to get out of it pretty soon (I'm still working on perfecting this method). Just jump into a friends project and try to help him with his challenges... I prefer working in a situation where no one is expecting so much from me...that's when I perform magic. So this scenario is ideal for me to reboot my creativity or confidence or momentum or whatever you call it! Your friend will appreciate an unexpected new perspective from a creative friend and you suddenly feel cool with an overflowing momentum. Doesn't matter how often you fall it's all about how quickly you get back on your feet.

When I become truly interested in a project and ready to be associated, the next question I get asked is how much do I charge for investing my time and expertise into their projects. Well...at this point I go blank and I simply didn't know how much to charge...for a very long time! I try to come up with a number which now I look back was insane! So I don't have to pay rent and calculating my monthly bills and other miscellaneous expenses it comes around about 25k per month... So I felt like charging a 50k or maybe 75k was a reasonable sum. That's a mediocre perspective. I was brought up with so much irrational fear about money that how difficult it is to make money and how you should plan and save and save and other BS about money. I always had this insecurity when it comes to money (as I'm writing this, I still do have those fear though I have figured out which part of my financial senses needs to be rewired..and I'm working on it). I had a conversation with my ...