JOSETER

How many times have you heard people or family and friends saying “don’t be judgemental”? Without judging how can you have a strong opinion about anyone or anything...Judgement is a key factor for making better choices. If you are not being judgemental, all you possess is some processed opinion some judgemental guy cooked up for you...and the choices you make in your lives will be based on that - don’t you smell a sheep there!? Someone who is a pussy aka sensitive is the one who says not to be judging...if you don't want people to judge you.. become better. You will not give a damn when you know you are awesome. It's alright to let some people gravitate away from you for keeping things real and raw. Build a community that understands and trusts you at every level...push others away without hesitation. Instead focusing on not being judgemental..focus on being a better judge.

Changing course often hardly takes you anywhere. But what when your personality is all about getting bored easily when you are taped to one project for a while..and always wanting to try new things? When everybody around you makes statements like "you won't take any thing seriously and keep jumping projects..what's wrong with you!" ...you might even start feeling strongly that it is a problem. I realize now that it is not a problem. That's what you are! It's your personality. Living your life otherwise causes you deep dissatisfaction and emptiness. All you need is a cushion to feel comfortable and do the jumping. By cushion I mean a cash cow that makes money every month to cover your lavish lifestyle expenses and more. When you jump after the other you won't bleed money and save an heart attack for people who are involved. Set a course...hold on to it until you can start milking it and make it your cash cow. Now is your time to feed your personality! Tr...

Technology is generously helping lazy people to become more and more useless. So when things go wrong they perish easily. Separating wheat from chaff!

This guy got some seeds, happily goes to his garden to plant them all! Wakes up next day so excited to check if there is a plant or maybe even flowers! Becomes very disappointed and discouraged to see no sign of anything at all....restlessly pluck the seed out to see what's happened. So he plants it back again, comes back next day with a discouraged excitement to see nothing again. Angry man takes the seed out throws it away concluding it was such a waste of time. If this man sounds obviously absurd to you...most of us already posses that quality and how is that it doesn't strike you as weird? Quick conclusions and judgements have made people evolve with mediocre relationships. Don't you agree? And the most annoying thing of all is when they say something like..."from my 30 years of experience"....shut that damn mouth before it drops any bullshit.

When you realize you can handle any given topic or situation you start feeling relaxed and let people talk before voicing your opinion. People who don't listen and forces their opinion onto others are the ones insecure about their own content. Have you seen people killing a cockroach?

Ignorance is such a powerful tool that we all tend to use at some point in our lives or may be even every single day!? When you know those fruits and veggies you eat everyday are kind of poisoned with preservatives.. chemicals are used to make them grow bigger or ripe fast...what steps do you really take? Yes you are aware what's harming your health..but what do you really do about it? Ignore as if it's no big deal..meh! Though I make sure to get them from the best places...and wash off any possible chemicals on them. But I still choose to ignore the fact that it isn't very effective. These things are not in my control so I choose to ignore it rather than ruining my peace thinking about it. Think about the list of things you choose to ignore! We human beings are more focused on present situation than worrying about future, at least we say we do but we clearly don't. We have so much crap to worry about for the next hour or day, so how can you effectively think and act...

When someone says something and you feel incredibly sensitive is because you have wound within (mostly insecurities) and you feel the pain when people reach it.. so how do you conclude this? Is it their fault or yours? Scenario: When you are insecure about something, you come up with justifying conclusions and choose to believe it's all gone and good.. But in real it's just a cover-up. Whenever someone proves you wrong and make you realize it's still in there... They are instantly activating your defense system. As long as you don't heal it... You are exposing yourself to pain that doesn't even make sense most of the time. Don't focus on staying away from people that play with your wounds. Put yourself around them often to test where you stand. These people are not threats... They are your solution...they make you become stronger.